Dads, You’re Doing Better Than You Think, And Here’s the Proof
“I Wouldn’t Sell My Dad for Anything”: A Second Grader’s Words Every Father Should Hear
Sometimes, the deepest truths come from the smallest voices.
Here at Fathers.com, we’ve read a lot of essays about dads—some hilarious, some heartwarming, and all incredibly honest. But few match the simple beauty of this Father’s Day tribute written by second grader Taylor:
“My dad is a very kind person. He loves to play with me. He always gets me what I want. I am glad I have a kind dad. If I didn’t have a dad, I would feel lonely. But when I do have my dad, I feel happy.”
“My dad always comforts me when I am scared. When there is a thunderstorm, he lets me sleep with him, and when I can’t fall asleep, he helps me go to sleep. He prays with me before I go to bed.”
“I would not sell my dad for anything, not even a race car.”
It’s Not About Being Perfect—It’s About Being Present
Taylor’s dad may not think he’s doing anything extraordinary.
But to Taylor? He’s a giant. A comforter. A protector. A hero.
Not because of fancy vacations or expensive toys.
But because:
- He comforts her during storms.
- He prays with her before bed.
- He plays and laughs and carries her up the stairs when she’s fallen asleep.
That’s what love looks like to a child.
And that’s what fatherhood is really about.
Everyday Kindness Builds Lifetime Memories
Sometimes dads think they need to do something big to make an impact.
But kids, like Taylor, are telling us what really matters:
- Be kind.
- Be consistent.
- Be close.
It’s the small things that leave the deepest impressions:
- The bedtime prayer.
- The piggyback ride.
- The quiet act of picking up a sleeping child and carrying them to bed.
You might forget the moment.
But your child might carry it for life.
Dad, You’re Doing Better Than You Think
Maybe today you feel like you're barely keeping up.
Maybe the to-do list is endless, your patience is thin, and the affirmations are few.
But here’s the truth:
If you’re comforting your kids when they’re scared...
If you’re taking time to pray with them…
If you’re playing—even when you’re tired…
You’re doing exactly what they need.
Fatherhood That Changes a Nation Starts in the Living Room
The change we all want to see in our culture begins with fatherhood—faithful, kind, present dads who shape their kids one bedtime story, one moment of comfort, and one prayer at a time.
So keep showing up.
Keep doing the little things.
And keep reminding yourself: to your child, you matter more than you know.
Questions to Consider
- What’s your favorite memory of your own dad or father figure? Consider writing a short thank-you note or making a call this Father’s Day.
- Would your kids describe you as kind? If that’s hard to answer, ask your spouse or a trusted friend how you can grow in this area.
- Do you feel confident comforting your kids? If not, begin by showing up, offering a hug, and simply asking, “How can I help you feel safe right now?”
- When have your kids made you feel most affirmed as a father? Were you doing something big—or something beautifully ordinary?
- Start one simple weekly tradition—a walk, a bedtime joke, a Saturday donut run—that your kids will always associate with you.