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What Will Your Great-Grandkids Know About You?

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Will Your Great-Grandkids Know Your Name? Building a Legacy That Lasts

Here’s a simple but sobering question:

Do you know the name of your great-grandfather? Or your great-grandmother?

Maybe you do. Maybe you don’t.
But here’s the harder one:

Will your great-grandkids know yours?

Chances are, they won’t.
And while that might sound like no big deal, it raises a deeper question:

What kind of legacy am I leaving behind?

Because whether or not your name ends up etched in a family tree app or engraved on a monument, what you stand for as a dad—your faith, your values, your love—can ripple across generations.

Legacy Isn’t About Recognition

This isn’t about being famous or building something flashy.
It’s not about chasing achievements your descendants will brag about.

Real legacy isn’t built in headlines.
It’s built in habits. In words spoken. In love lived out daily.

Legacy looks like:

  • Tucking your kids in and praying over them.
  • Having hard conversations and staying present.
  • Teaching your child to treat people with kindness and humility.
  • Showing up for the game, even if it’s the third one this week.

These aren’t grand gestures. They’re steady ones.
And they matter more than you know.

Your Kids Are the Legacy

You don’t just leave a legacy through what you build—you leave it through who you build.

Your kids will carry your story into the next generation.
They’ll tell stories about what kind of man you were:

“Dad always showed up.”
“He listened, even when I messed up.”
“He talked about God like He was real.”
“He worked hard, but he never let work come before us.”

That’s legacy.

Not perfection—but presence.
Not control—but character.
Not fame—but faithfulness.

Start Today—Legacy Is Built in the Now

We often think legacy comes later. After we retire. After we’ve “figured it all out.”
But it starts in the moments you’re living right now.

Ask yourself:

  • What talk have I been meaning to have with my son?
  • What outing have I been wanting to take with my daughter?
  • What habit could I start today that might shape my child for life?

You don’t have to overhaul everything overnight.
Just make one move toward intentionality.

Don’t Let the Days Drift

One day, your kids will be grown.
Then, they’ll raise kids of their own.
And how you father them today will shape how they father tomorrow.

Let that reality push you—not into panic, but into purpose.

Because long after your name fades, your legacy can live on in the way your kids love, lead, and raise the next generation.

So, Dad, how do you want to be remembered?

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Questions to Consider

  • How far back can you trace your family tree? What do you know about the men and women who came before you?
  • If your great-grandchild could read a one-paragraph summary of your life, what would you want it to say?
  • What daily choices are you making that will shape your children’s memories of you?
  • What’s one fear you have about parenting—and how could that fear actually guide you toward more intentional fathering?
  • Who can you schedule a one-on-one outing with this week—just to connect, laugh, and lay another brick in the legacy you’re building?