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“I Love the Rain”: One Dad’s Legacy in a Storm

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She wasn’t a little girl anymore.

But when the clouds opened and the rain came down, Alice smiled.

She smiled because it reminded her of the shed out back. The smell of sawdust. The sound of her dad's hands at work. And the simple, quiet joy of just being nearby.

“When it rained, Daddy was home,” Alice told a friend one gray afternoon.
“That meant I could be with him. Just the two of us.”

Her friend was confused—rain usually feels like a nuisance, not a gift.

But for Alice, it always meant time with her dad.
No appointments. No job sites. Just presence. Just peace.

You Don’t Need a Plan. You Just Need to Be There.

Dads, you might not realize it, but your kids are creating memory-maps of your time together.

You think it’s just weeding the garden, checking the fence, pointing at stars, or letting them hop in the truck on the way to the hardware store. But to them, it's love with boots on. Presence in real time. A dad who notices and says, “You matter. Come with me.”

Alice’s dad probably never set out to create a lifelong memory.
But the stormy days of her childhood are now the sunshine in her adult heart.

So Here’s the Big Question:

What will your kids associate with your time together?

  • Will they hear laughter when the comic section is opened?
  • Will a snowstorm smell like hot cocoa and a fire with Dad?
  • Will a ballgame feel like home because that’s what you always watched together?

Or will the rain feel lonely?

The Power of Repetition and Association

Alice learned to expect love when it rained.
Because it happened often enough and kindly enough that it stuck.

That’s your invitation.

You don’t have to plan something elaborate.
You just have to show up—with consistency and care.

Then let ordinary things do the work of building extraordinary memories.

Takeaway Truth:

The greatest legacy might come from the quietest moments. Dads, your presence—again and again—is what turns weather, errands, chores, and even silence into lifetime treasures.

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Questions to Consider

  • Start small. Invite your child to join you today—even if it’s just walking the dog, sorting the mail, or checking the weather.
  • Create a simple tradition. Something repeatable—a drive, a drink, a story before bed—that becomes yours together.
  • Take note of memory triggers. What smells, sounds, or scenes remind you of your own dad? Use that as inspiration to shape moments now.
  • Build presence into your routine. Don’t wait for time. Make time. Even five minutes of focused attention plants deep roots.
  • Share your world. Let your child see what you love to do—and bring them into it. Show them they belong in your everyday life.